What should we use as gender-neutral pronouns for non-binary people?

Individuals may not agree with any current pronoun options

Question: What should we use as gender-neutral pronouns for non-binary people?
Position‹3 of 3: It should be up to the individual to decide what their pronouns should be
Argument: Individuals may not agree with any current pronoun options

If a specific set of pronouns is made official, there is no guarantee that everyone will feel that it is natural or relevant to them. It would only end up being another pronoun set forced upon unwilling persons who feel they identify as something else entirely.

The argument

Adopting an official set of gender-neutral pronouns would only pigeonhole non-binary persons into yet another set of forced pronouns. Not every non-binary individual agrees on the same set of pronouns--some prefer singular they/them while others prefer ze/hir, fae/faer, ve/ver, xe/xem, or something else entirely. People should be allowed to choose the pronouns they identify with individually. It is more politically correct and respectful to individuals to simply ask what their pronouns are, and then use them.

Premises

[P1]Non-binary individuals do not share a consensus on which gender-neutral pronouns best fit them, with preferences ranging across they/them, ze/hir, fae/faer, xe/xem, and others. [P2] Imposing an official set of gender-neutral pronouns would force non-binary people into a category that may not match their identity. [P3] Asking each person which pronouns they use respects individual identity and avoids this imposition. [C] Therefore, each individual should decide what their own pronouns are rather than having a standard set assigned to them.

Counter-arguments

It would be too difficult to keep up with so many variations. Imagine knowing ten people who identify as non-binary; now imagine that each of them have a different set of pronouns they would like for you to use. What if you accidentally call one of them by another person's pronoun? It would be mind-boggling to try to keep them all straight. On the other hand is the option of picking a universal set of gender-neutral pronouns for all non-binary persons. This doesn't lump every non-binary person into the same category. It is simply one word being used to refer to individuals in a gender-neutral way.

Rejecting the premises

[Rejecting P1] A universal set of gender-neutral pronouns would be more effective and less confusing for people to learn and adapt to.